'Working
Actors' Series
Article by Jake
Christensen
Detailed, lengthy interview for CITY ARTS
Transmitted 26 March 1999
CITY
ARTS interviewed him for our program "Working
Actors."
CITY
ARTS: So, are you going to go to medical school?
B.D. Wong: Well, I'm thinking about becoming . . . What
should I think of becoming? A neurosurgeon, I think. Oh, my
gosh! Well, there's an answer to that question. I mean, I
encountered a great deal of challenge. I mean, when I first
decided to become an actor, I went through that whole thing
with my folks, because my folks were so sure that they
wanted me to be a doctor, which couldn't be a more wrong
thing for me, really. But they had their natural kind of
parental tendencies, and I had an older brother who was a
doctor. So, it was very difficult for them to make the
adjustment that I would become an actor, even though it was
so clear throughout my whole childhood that I was so not
anything but a kind of creative, hammy kind of person. To
answer your question, the road that I've been on, which is
a huge part of my success, comes from their support. That
road that I'm on now is of great satisfaction to them. They
feel a great deal of pride, I think, and a great deal of
satisfaction in knowing that they played a huge part in my
becoming an actor, and that the fear that they swallowed
was a big part of what brought me to kind of get here. So,
I think they are really enjoying this part of it immensely.
CITY
ARTS: Is there something more that you need? I mean, you're
on Broadway and you're in OZ. You have success as an actor,
but yet, is there something more that you
want?
I feel, for the first time in my life, a great sense of --
not relief -- the most relaxed place that I've ever been. I
no longer worry about, knock wood, putting food on my
table. I certainly make a living that's unbelievable to me
in the context of my life, with the potential that I
thought I had when I was a young boy. And I also no longer
worry about -- in my kind of self-esteem, from that point
of view -- I don't worry about whether or not I will be
chosen, whether there will be a long gap between one job
and another. I kind of have reached a rather metaphysical
conclusion, which is that everything will be okay and
everything takes care of itself, and that if I accept
everything happening that happens to me, it somehow allows
more things to happen. So that's how I am. I don't know if
that answers your question specifically, but that's how I
am, kind of emotionally and spiritually. I no longer worry
about it at all, and it's made it incredibly better for me.
I mean, it's made more opportunities come my way in a very
odd way, because I'm no longer clenched. What I would call
clenched is that I'm no longer invested in every single
meeting and audition as the thing that's going to cure my
lack of boredom, poverty, lull in my career, any of those
kinds of things. I just only want to share my gifts, and
that is so much healthier for me than the place of
neediness, and the neediness to validate myself, or the
need to validate my talent through work or through
exposure. I don't really feel as much of a need for it
anymore.
CITY
ARTS: What was your dream when you first got here?
I'm from San Francisco, California, and I grew up in San
Francisco, California, ironically enough, listening to
Broadway cast albums that my dad played on a big
reel-to-reel tape recorder, not really wanting to be on
Broadway because of that, but knowing the medium of musical
theater through that. I was introduced to the musical
theater through school productions, and those school
productions actually were my introduction to becoming an
actor. And it is ironic, or not ironic, but it is only now
that I've been in my first Broadway musical, after doing a
lot of work in film and in non-musical plays, and so it's a
kind of full circle situation for me. I've always loved the
medium of musical theater and never judged it or turned my
nose up at it like a lot of dramatic actors have. I love
it. I think it is incredibly amazing. I love its
American-ness, and I've always prided myself as being a
perfect example of what it means to be an American in many
ways, just because of my point of view as an Asian-American
and a lot different things. And so, the American nature of
musical theater really appeals to me. It really appeals to
me. And so now, I'm actually doing that, and that's a bit
of a dream come true, to be in a Broadway musical. I think
a lot of people actually have this dream to be in a
Broadway musical and won't admit it, but I have always had
that, and this is a great rush for me -- to be in this
show.
CITY
ARTS: What do you feel like at the end of the night when
you hear that applause?
Well, there's really nothing like it. I mean, obviously the
power and the magic of music are singular. They really help
to transport the theatrical experience to a whole other
level. So, music is a big part of this incredible rush that
you feel when you're in a musical, that you cannot feel
when you're in a drama, no matter how satisfying that part
is or that acting is. So, I feel incredibly exhilarated at
the end of doing this particular play, partly because of
the existence of music and the role that the music plays
and my involvement in it. My being able to be a conduit of
that music is amazing to me.
CITY
ARTS: You mentioned that your dad played this music. Do you
have any memories of your favorites?
I remember exactly what he played. My father played all of
these, you know, he played a lot of Rodgers and
Hammerstein, and musical theater, on this huge reel-to-reel
tape recorder. The first two things that come to my mind
that he played are really telling to me. He played "The
King and I" and "Flower Drum Song." Now, he played a lot of
other things, too. He played "My Fair Lady"; he played "The
Music Man"; and he played "Fiddler [on the Roof]." He
didn't play a lot of, you know -- there are maybe ten
albums that he played over and over again -- "Camelot," and
a few other things. But he played "The King and I" and
"Flower Drum Song" because he was one of those people of a
certain generation, Asian-American. He's a third generation
Chinese-American, and they were starved for --
Asian-Americans are always, but really were at this point
in time -- starved for representation in the theater, and
on television, and in show business, in the media. And so
when these two plays came out, and they came out at
different times, they felt so extremely validated. They
consumed it so enthusiastically, and they listened to it
over and over again. Now we look back on some of the
material that's in those two plays and we think, "Oh, how
condescending or racist or token or whatever," but at that
time it was incredibly validating for them. So, I always
remember that he played that, and that was some kind of a
germ of some kind of awareness that I had of how I fit into
the scheme of being an actor in the professional world. I
always had a very keen knowledge that I was entering a
field which didn't really welcome me, and that when it did
welcome me, it was an exception rather than a rule. That
was part of that. So, that's a whole other issue. That's a
whole other thing that I could get into if you care to or
not.
CITY
ARTS: How much of a barrier have you come up against?
I'm not sure if you could describe the challenges that I
face in my career on a day-to-day basis as . . . Well,
first of all, I think it's an incredible . . . Well, let me
start over again, because it's such a wide issue -- how
much of a barrier is my race in whether I'm successful or
not successful in the things that I face. There's no
question that race really plays a huge part in my being
picked or not being picked every day of my life. It comes
up. We're not yet at a point in this country -- or, I'm not
even sure if in any country -- where actors are totally,
where we can be completely blind to color. That is
something that, if things keep going the way they're going,
it's very possible it could happen. But there will always,
there is at this time always a really keen, a very palpable
awareness of someone's race. So, it's very hard to put your
finger on why you don't get picked for something sometimes.
You aren't always aware; you aren't always sure whether it
is any number of things that could be the reason why you've
been rejected. You sense, a lot of times, that rejection
comes from the color of your skin, and that's very, very
demoralizing. But most of all, rejection [itself] is pretty
demoralizing. That particular thing is, of course, a very
sensitive issue for me. I'm not sure if I can tell you how
large a part it plays, but it definitely plays a large part
on a day-to-day basis. I'd like to be more specific.
CITY
ARTS: Can it be an advantage ever?
Well, listen, for me it's the greatest gift of all. It's a
great gift to have what I consider to be, you know . . .
part of so much of being an actor is so wanting to be a
special person, so wanting to be noticed and wanting to be,
to have a certain kind of attention, a special kind of
attention. I can't deny that. I mean, I have that as much
as any other actor has it, and your race can play a huge
part in that specialness. I think that that's a great gift
for me. It, yes, can be an advantage in whether you're
chosen or not chosen. You can be chosen because there's an
issue of diversity that the director wishes to exploit or
wishes to discuss in the production, and that, I think more
often than not, is a very positive thing. I mean, I'm kind
of loath to say, "Yes, it's an advantage, and exploit the
fact that it's an advantage." I think it's such a very
mercurial issue. It's so hard for me to kind of discuss it
in black and white terms.
I'll tell you why it's such a huge issue. It's because
there are so many different facets to the issue of race.
There's the issue of non-traditional casting, and
non-traditional casting specifically was invented because
the playing field between actors of all different races was
not even. And non-traditional casting is the specific
casting of an ethnic person or a non-white person in a role
in which their race does not matter in the piece. Now
that's a very important distinction to make, because there
are many roles in which the race of the character really is
crucial to the mechanics of the play or the theme of the
play or the theme of a production of a play. And
non-traditional casting is not that. Non-traditional
casting is, to put it really mundanely, we need a doctor,
and the stereotypical kind of 1960s or 1950s version of a
doctor is a Caucasian man in a white lab coat.
Non-traditional casting was trying to show and trying to
explore the fact that, "No, we must no longer think of a
doctor as a Caucasian man in a white lab coat unless his
Caucasianness is really integral to the production or to
the play." So, that was really an employment issue. That
was an issue of allowing actors to compete for parts and
have the playing field be open.
Then, there's an issue of something called color-blind
casting. And color-blind casting is, in the best of all
possible worlds, in that world in which the actor's craft
and his creativity and the audience's imagination are so
incredibly perfect that anybody can play any part. A
Caucasian man playing Othello, or even a Caucasian man
playing the engineer in "Miss Saigon," or an Asian man
playing, you know, my example is always Rolf in "The Sound
of Music" -- because when I was a little boy I wanted to be
Rolf in the "Sound of Music" -- is really "anything goes."
You can have that, and the audience goes there, and it can
be the most beautiful thing about the theater -- the fact
that the audience suspends its disbelief to even transcend
race, the most presentational thing about an actor. The way
they look to transcend that, now, we're not really there
yet. I mean, we're only there in very rare instances, and
it's a rare and magical thing when that happens. But we're
not there, because the playing field is not even for actors
to compete for roles in which race is not an issue.
Furthermore, it only goes one way. Color-blind casting, up
until this point, really kind of only goes one way, which
is the Caucasian actor playing Othello, or Caucasian actor
playing the Asian role. I don't have the same freedom that
a lot of classical Caucasian actors had, which is that they
got to play all these different things, and I never get to
play a white person, specifically a white person. I can
play a part that has been played by a Caucasian person in
the past, but that's kind of different. I will never get to
put on a blond wig and play Rolf in "The Sound of Music."
And I'm older than 17 going on 18 now, but that's beside
the point. I don't see that happening until the playing
field is completely even, and that we're all, like, so in
it together that we're sharing that color-blind experience.
It has to go both ways for it to really work. So, how that
plays into my daily life as an actor, that's always
something that I dream about, that's always something that
I'm looking forward to doing. That is something when I'm
doing a play where I'm playing a comic strip character that
was born in 1952, who was thought of as Caucasian, and I'm
playing that part alongside an African-American actor who's
playing a similarly beloved character who's thought of as
blond.
The point is that, for instance, in this time now, when I'm
able to play -- or chosen to play, called upon to play,
invited to play -- this character from a comic strip, a
famous comic strip, who was born in like 1952 or something
like that; and who is thought of, or would never be
described as Caucasian, but you know, has Caucasian
features, I guess, as much as a comic strip person can
have; and I'm on the stage with another actor who's an
African-American actor who's also playing a blond comic
strip character; and I'm in a play where the audience
doesn't really care at all, in fact embraces it and loves
it, and actually loves it more than they could if it was
just done the plain old way, the normal way; then I feel
like I do feel a sense of hope and a sense of
accomplishment and a sense of moving towards that day when
color-blind, true color-blind casting is the norm. And it
really isn't the norm now, and it isn't because there are
even still people going, "Oh, Schroeder's black, what a
concept for me to grasp." Schroeder wasn't a real person.
Schroeder is a person that Charles Schulz created who is a
comic strip character, and just to talk very briefly about
this particular play, I really feel that the characters are
iconic personalities, not necessarily characters of a
specific race. They don't really ever kind of get into race
in that world. They have a lot of human qualities. To me,
the character of Linus in this play "You're A Good Man,
Charlie Brown," or even Linus, the character of Linus
outside of the play, in the comic strips and in the videos
and on the lunch boxes, is a state of mind, is a kind of a
person. To actually say that he's a Caucasian person and
can't be anything but a Caucasian person is a really
dangerous, and actually very unhealthy, way to look at it,
as far as I'm concerned. So that's that about that.
Let me just say one other thing. When I decided to become
an actor, when I was a young boy having this experience on
the stage, and I got bitten by that thing, I was also a
consumer, and I was consuming television movies and the
occasional theatrical production in which a person that
looked like me was generally excluded. And that caused for
me a great schism or strange kind of . . . it was a very
unhealthy. It caused me to think unhealthy things about
myself, and to wish that I wasn't an Asian-American person,
to deny it, and to kind of wish that I was Caucasian. And
that was because I wanted so badly to be an actor. I mean,
I had exactly that thing that all actors talk about, that
burning passion or desire, that thing that you tell the
young actors who are coming in about. If you don't have it,
don't do it. I had that. And at the same time, I wanted to
go into this field, and I saw that people that looked like
me were totally excluded from it, or were made to make fun
of themselves. Or if you were a man, you were emasculated,
and if you were a woman, oversexualized, all of those kind
of political issues. And I decided to do it anyway, and I
thought I was doing it naively: "Well, I guess you're going
to have to try to change it, or something like that." And
that was a very interesting way to enter it. My parents
kind of got on board with me, and they supported me
emotionally to do that, and I have to say that at this
point in time -- and it's maybe more than 15 years later --
I do feel like things have changed, and I do feel a certain
kind of sense of . . . not personal victory, but I do feel
like I have been here to see a slow sense of movement, and
a different sensibility about my role as a minority, or
specifically as an Asian-American in this industry. And I
don't think that all actors of color feel that way, but I
certainly feel that way, and have in my career. I think
that that means that it must be better for others, and I
hope that that's true, but it goes way back for me to when
I was a young kid being confused by the things that I saw,
and not liking it and not feeling good about myself because
of it.
CITY
ARTS: What was it like for you when you first came to New
York?
When I first came to New York, I went to every single
audition that I could think of, and one of the auditions
that I went to was for this summer theater that was doing a
season of musicals and plays. I think they were doing
"Camelot," and they were doing "The Sound of Music," and I
sat down at this interview after having waited in line all
day, and the director said, "What show do you want to be
in? And what parts do you want?" And he had prefaced it by
saying, "Oh, we're really involved in casting people of all
different colors for all our things. We're very open to it,
and it's really wonderful, and we're really good about
that. Who do you want to play?" And without batting an
eyelash, I said, "I'd like to play Rolf in 'The Sound of
Music.'" Now, that speaks to something really deep that was
going on inside me, and that I didn't understand fully, and
that I understand much better now. That was partly that,
because the industry had treated me a certain way, and
because I fit in or did not fit into the industry a certain
way, I wished that I was a white person more than I was
pleased with myself for being an Asian-American person. I
wanted to play that part because I thought that I could. I
mean, I was in such denial that I thought that I could. At
this point in time, looking back, of course it's completely
wrong and actually against a lot of the policies that I
really advocate, which are that, at this point in time,
before the playing field is even, it's not fair for us to
be kind of crossing the line so much, playing outside of
our race, even. But anyway, what happened to me then was
really interesting to me. I always look back on that, and
the naivete of that, and I see that I have a feeling that
that phenomenon is not occurring so much, that kind of
denial and all of that that I had when I was 18 or 19 years
old, or 17. So, I think that's a good thing. I kind of
laugh when I think about it, but actually it was a really
painful kind of way, an unhealthy way to be, because of the
magnitude of the industry and the way it treats a person
and what it can do to them.
CITY
ARTS: And then, when you were in "M. Butterfly . . . "
"M. Butterfly" was my first Broadway play. My acting
teacher, Don Hotton, who was a teacher that I had in L.A.,
was the guy who helped me get the part. Don's technique was
all about accepting the responsibility of being a
messenger, not interpreting classic work, but finding out
what it is that's on the page that you're supposed to do,
and not trying to change it or be creative about it. And a
lot of people are always trying to: "Oh, I'm going to play
this way, or I'm going to add this way of speaking," or
whatever, impose upon a part certain things. And he was
like, "Just strip it down to what the writer's saying. And
if you really marry yourself to that, you can be a great
messenger and you can give a great performance." And I
said, "I understand that, but I don't really understand
what it means to be so in love with a writer's words that
you really can do that and understand it." And I had this
opportunity to read for this play called "M. Butterfly,"
and when I read the first page of it and as I started
flipping through it, it validated me so much as an
Asian-American and as a man and as a lot of different
things. I just got so many things that I had felt in my
life, or understood, that I understood what he meant. All
of a sudden, the technique just went like this for me. And
I said, "Oh, he means that you really feel, and you have
enough life experience or a parallel experience that you
can relate to it, you can give a great performance." And
that's kind of what happened to me in that. I was able to
channel something because I really believed in it. And that
began, for me, a whole different way of looking at the
work, which was that you really need to understand what it
is that you understand about it.
CITY
ARTS: And what did the success from that role do for you?
The success from that play was a double-edged sword. It was
an incredible opportunity for me. It was the play that put
me on the map. "M. Butterfly" was my first Broadway show.
"M. Butterfly" was the play that kind of put me on the map.
If there even is a map, then that was it. The success that
I got from that play, or the success that I had in it, was
a bit of a double-edged sword. I could not have asked for a
more intense, satisfying, artistic experience. I was
working with a fantastic director, John Dexter, a fantastic
star, John Lithgow, and it was the part of a lifetime. And
I was very young and inexperienced, and so I learned and
soaked up so much from it. That was a great thing. I got a
lot of opportunities after that, but I also had this very
bizarre stigma that hung over my head because I had played
such an eccentric kind of homoerotic part. And it caused
me, for years, to not be able to get past, in the
producer's or casting director's mind, how much of that was
craft and how much of it was me. And that was very hurtful
to me. I was very disappointed by that. I really felt that
I was so transformed in the play; and at that time of my
life, in my work, transformation was a big part of what I
really thought acting was all about. I'm much less about
that now. And so then I was just so into being a chameleon
and changing myself and wanting people to understand and
appreciate how much work went into that. And so I thought
people got that, and yet at the same time I would go to
casting sessions or not be able to get in for a part, and
realize that it had to do with the fact that I wore a dress
in the first two acts of a three-act play, in which, in the
third act, I did wear pants eventually, but that seemed
kind of a moot point. It was so worth it. Now, that is just
kind of a milestone. There's more of a perspective that
everyone has about what it is that I do now, so that's
good.
CITY
ARTS: How do you cope with rejection?
Well, I'm just getting to a point now in my life where
rejection is not taken personally. Although every once in a
while, that one thing catches you where you have put so
much of your heart into something and so much of a
knowledge in your mind that it is the right thing for you,
and when it doesn't happen, it can be really, really sad.
That's the one thing that I really want to get out of my
life, the feeling of sadness that happens, because I'm
becoming more and more aware now that it's not personal,
it's not a personal thing. And a lot of times, I used to
have to do a lot of tricky justification to kind of get
past it, and I don't have to do that so much anymore. I
don't have to say, "Oh, they're jerks," or, "Who needs
them, anyway?" I just have to kind of accept that life is
what it is, and that my life that I've chosen, which I love
and which is noble, has these things in it. And I kind of
like that now. I kind of wear it like the red badge of
courage, I guess.
CITY
ARTS: Can you comment on acting being a noble profession?
Well, one of the things that I get off on about acting,
which is most prevalent when I'm on the stage, is the
nature of the actor's role being very ancient and being
very related to large amounts of people gathering in dark
and temple-like rooms to witness this thing that happens
before them, and to kind of reverently experience it all
together. It is a very human, almost primitive kind of
thing. I love being part of the equation, and I love the
part of it that I am, which is the actor. Less and less as
I go on in my life do I think that I'm acting because of my
own ego, or because of what I want to get out of it, or
what I need -- that validation that I need, or that fame,
or that money. I do it now, more, I think, I hope, I wish,
because of that fantastic, wonderful thing. That at the end
of your life, you can say you were part of a vocation that
provoked people's thoughts, moved them, made them think
about themselves or their lives, and in some ways and rare
occasions, made the world a better place. And so for that
reason, I think that it's an incredibly noble and very
misunderstood kind of craft, partly because there is such a
preponderance of not only bad actors, but actors who are in
it for the wrong reasons, or who don't understand that
equation at all. So I have a tendency to spend a lot of
time in my life resenting those people, and yet I still
feel a tremendous sense of satisfaction from being there
when the audience is there. I don't think it's like
anything else. I don't even think -- and I don't mean to
kind of turn my nose up at it -- I don't even really think
it's like being an opera singer, a ballet dancer, or a
musician. I have great reverence for those vocations. I
mean, music and dance are just pure and beautiful, but what
happens when you're an actor, or what you are able to
experience as an actor through words and through being the
conduit of someone else's ideas or passion, is incredibly
profound to me. And that's why I chose it. I think that's
why I chose it.
I mean, I chose it when I was very young, so I don't think
I knew it then, but there was something very basic that
drew me to it. When I was in ninth grade, I studied the
violin, and I became apparently kind of really good at it.
And when I was in ninth grade and this girl who was a
classmate of mine invited me to audition for "Guys and
Dolls" in high school, or junior high school, and I said I
was going to play in the orchestra, she said, "Oh no, you
don't want to play in the orchestra. You want to be on the
stage." And secretly, I kind of wanted her to make me go to
this audition, and I also was at a crossroads because I
realized that as good as I was at playing the violin, I
didn't like it. I didn't love it. I was kind of a robot,
and I did it because my parents had paid a lot of money,
and because the teachers were really encouraging, and
because I was good at it. But when I walked on the stage,
that was the first time that I understood that I could love
it, and it would love me at the same time. And that was
when it made sense. That was the creative thing, because I
was painting and I was drawing and I was going to art
school, and I was doing a lot of different things that were
creative, but that was when everything made sense. And
that's when I realized that I could do whatever it took to
choose a life of that. I knew that that was going to be a
huge set of sacrifices or a kind of miserable life in some
ways, the way people look at it. It's definitely not a
miserable life. But I think I thought it was going to be; I
thought it was going to be. And yet, I thought it was worth
it, and I did it anyway.
CITY
ARTS: If a kid came up to you and told you he wanted to be
an actor too, what would you tell him? Is it just about
being persistent, or is there something to needing talent
as well?
This is the age-old question about being an actor: Whenever
you're somewhere, invariably someone will say, "For the
young people that are going into it, what do you have to
say to them?" And when I was young, nobody ever said, "Do
it." And a lot of actors now, most actors, many actors, a
lot of older actors will say, "Oh, don't encourage people
to do it. It's a terrible thing, it's a horrible thing. You
mustn't do it." And I find that actually reprehensible. And
I find it reprehensible because I was this kid with an
incredible, amazing passion that was being awakened within
me as I was asking the question. I didn't understand the
question. I didn't know why I was asking the question. I
just knew that I had to know whether I was making a fool
out of myself or not. And for them to say "don't do it" is
really, I think, very, very unfortunate and irresponsible.
I would say, "You can't do it if you don't have that thing,
if you don't have a burning desire to do it. It's not worth
it." A lot of people always say, "Oh, you know, I've done
some catalog modeling and I was in a couple of, I don't
know what, print ads for something, and somebody says I
should go into acting, and I think I'm going to try it."
Now, of course, everybody's right is to do whatever we
please, and I think that that's fantastic in one way. On
the other hand, I'm infuriated by that, because that's not
really what an actor is. An actor is not a person who's a
good-looking person, clearly, who just feels like saying a
few lines and making a living out of it.
An actor, to me, is that person who wants to be part of
that equation where they are a messenger, are able to use
their talent and their passion for their craft to enrich
someone's life by their witnessing what it is that you do.
And that can be done in a lot of different ways. When I was
a kid, nobody ever said that I should do it. They were all
very negative about it, and yet, I know that there are a
lot of negative things about it, and I would never tell
somebody not to do it. It's so rewarding and so incredibly
full of adventure that how can you tell a kid not to do
that because of that? Now, they should understand more
about life, is what I think kids should do. And the thing
about life is that life is full of ups and downs, and a lot
of lousy stuff and a lot of great stuff, and if you choose
the right thing in your life, those rare moments of
greatness and wonder and magic are so worth the price that
you pay when the lousy stuff comes by, that you have to do
it. You just have to.
CITY
ARTS: You have an incredible level of confidence. Does your
confidence come from winning the Tony?
That's very interesting to me. First of all, you know, I
have heard people say that I'm a very confident person. I
don't really feel necessarily more confident than anybody
else. I think that it's very difficult to be an actor, or
to live the life of an actor, without a certain tremendous
sense of confidence. I think it's very difficult. I can't
imagine not having confidence and doing it. I know that a
great deal of my success now -- and I don't mean success,
material success, I mean my own measure of success: whether
or not I'm living up to my own potential -- I know that
that has a lot to do with being confident. I don't know
where it really comes from. I mean, somebody would say, "Do
you have confidence because you have the Tony award?" I
don't think that's it. I think that I definitely had
confidence before I had a Tony award, and I don't think
that's it. The Tony award was extremely validating for me.
That's definitely true, and fortifying. But I think I make
a special effort to have confidence, or to find confidence,
and to nurture my own confidence, and to hone it, the way I
try to hone everything else, because it's a necessary
component in how you get along in a day-to-day way.
CITY
ARTS: What advice would you give an actor just starting
out?
One of the other things that I would say to those kids that
are starting out is that seeking support from a system of
support is really important. I had a great set of parents,
an unbelievable set of parents who supported me and who
nurtured me, and my support system, my circle of friends,
has always been strong and very, very cheerleader-like. It
helped propel me into the darkness. I think in your own
sense being a cheerleader for yourself is really important,
and that's where confidence is really, really important.
It's a very interesting issue, because I think there are a
lot of actors who lack confidence in a very bizarre way.
There are a lot of very good actors who lack confidence,
and in some bizarre way, their lack of confidence makes
their work good, in some ways. In other ways, it's their
enemy. I think there are a lot of different ways to look at
it. One thing that's great about acting is its
subjectivity, is the fact that it's so subjective. The
thing that makes one actor great is totally something that
makes another actor terrible, and vice versa, and all of
the different equations of it. In my case, confidence works
in my favor. Confidence helps me to get through it, and I
like myself better when I'm confident. I don't see how you
can go into a room with a bunch of strangers who are all
sitting behind a table, and I don't see how you can perform
for them and put yourself out there, in many cases reading
opposite a person who you've never worked with before --
you don't know what they're going to do and all of that,
all of the things that happen on auditions -- how can you
do that, how can you actually even walk through that door,
without being fortified in some way? Fortifying yourself,
or having others fortify you, and that's important. It's a
huge part of it. Most actors hate to audition, and that's a
really interesting thing to me, because I really enjoy it.
I think it's fun. I will tell you, 11 times out of 10, I
don't get the part. I mean, that's just the way it is when
you're an actor. And so you kill yourself if you don't
think of a reason to justify that. My reason for justifying
it is that it's another performance. And I will say, "Oh,
I've never played Iago in 'Othello,' but, you know, I've
auditioned for that part, which means to me that I've
played the part, because there was an audience there, and I
did it." So, I think that that's funny that people don't
like to audition. I mean, I have definitely gone to
auditions that I've dreaded, don't get me wrong.
CITY
ARTS: The character of Linus, is that
you?
Linus, the character of Linus, is more me than a lot of
characters that I've played. I think that has to do with
Michael Mayer, the director, kind of wishing to choose
people that inherently, spiritually, emotionally -- not
physically, but inside -- match to these people that were
so beloved to everyone over the years, have been so
beloved. And so he is, it turns out, a lot more like me
than some of the other characters that I've played. And
like I told you before, I don't have as much of a desire to
completely transform myself now as I used to. And so yeah,
he is, he's really close to me. He's really, I think, in my
mind's eye, he's more my dad, and I love my dad so much.
He's so much of the purity and the spirit and the
spirituality and the wisdom of my dad.
CITY
ARTS: When you played Linus many years ago, did you say to
yourself, "I'm going to do this on Broadway someday?"
You know, I was in "You're A Good Man, Charlie Brown" when
I was 15, and it was at the "Y," and it was a tiny little
community theater group that just kind of put this whole
production together. As a matter of fact, the girl that
made me go to my first audition, she was in that company;
her dad was running it. And I was playing Linus, and, you
know, I had no idea that I was going to become a
professional actor when I did the play. I did know when I
did that play -- and this was like the second play that I
had done after "Guys and Dolls" -- I had the bug continuing
to bite me through that play, and I remember feeling funny
in that play. Doing something that made the audience laugh,
and hearing a collective room of people laughing and going,
"Oh wow, that's really good," and wanting more of that, and
wanting to just make people happy in that way, and for them
to get something out of it. That has continued, and I felt
that way, but I didn't think that I was going to become a
professional actor. When I started rehearsing the Broadway
revival of "You're A Good Man, Charlie Brown," I asked my
mother, "Do you remember that I did this play when I was 15
years old?" And she said, "Oh, yes." And I said, "Well,
what do you remember about it?" And she said, "Well, I
remember that it was very funny, you were very funny, and
that at the end of the show, they introduced the guy who
played Charlie Brown, but they didn't introduce you." And I
said, "Mom, those days are over."
CITY
ARTS: Do you have a funny audition
story?
You know, I don't have a really funny story. To me, bad
auditions aren't funny. I can't make, even in retrospect,
can't make fun of . . . Well, auditioning is so funny,
because it's a time in which you're supposed to do your
absolute best and most focused work, even more important
than actual performance, because you're being judged to be
given the job. Yet, there are so many more variables. There
are these variables of -- you know, it's so incredible what
actors have to do. They have to deal with all this kind of
obstacle course of variables -- this partner that you're
reading with that you don't know. In Acting 101, that's
just . . . you don't do that. You don't just kind of say,
"Hello, how are you, let's do this really intense love
scene together." You don't do that. And then there's the
issue of whether the director is paying attention or
wanting you to be there or not, and all of these other
things that are going on. I do remember that very recently
I had an audition for -- I will tell you exactly what it
was for, instead of mincing -- I was auditioning for the
television movie version of MOBY DICK, which recently
starred Gregory Peck. I had gone into this room with the
casting director and the two, the producer and the
director, and I was so well-prepared and confident, and I
started doing the scene and the monologue, and the director
fell asleep. Now, they had just come from Australia, or
gotten on a red-eye or something really bizarre, and he
just was watching me, and at first I thought he was
incredibly intent on my performance, and then he just went
. . . like this. I was watching him while I was doing the
monologue, kind of like, "Wow, he's falling asleep. He's
actually falling asleep." Now, when the director falls
asleep -- this had never happened to me before, right --
and you're thinking to yourself, do you actually stop and
say, "Excuse me, you're falling asleep. Should I start over
or what?" And at the end, I think what became clear was
that I finished, and there needed to be a moment when he
realized I was done, and he woke up. He said, "Oh I'm so,
so sorry that I've . . . " whatever, and it was one of
those kinds of auditions that you felt was a complete waste
of time.
I didn't get the part, and yet I did think at that time
that it was kind of funny. I guess I didn't really want or
care about doing that particular project that much. And if
it had been, you know, Declan Donnellan or somebody falling
asleep in front of me, I would have been mortified and want
to kill myself, but it was just what it was. That's what
happens to you, though. You go and you put yourself on the
line. This is what's so incredible and noble about it, this
kind of idea that you throw yourself into it, and that you
throw yourself into it knowing that the chances are that
you will be rejected. I'm talking about not being in
performance mode, but in vying for a job. You throw
yourself out into it, and the things that you have to do to
do that, and the things that you have to deal with, are
incredible to me. People falling asleep. Where else do you
have that, really? The one person who you look in judgement
of, you know, you're looking to them for the approval.
They're falling asleep.
CITY
ARTS: Do you really feel like those people should be
sitting in judgment?
Well, they're the gatekeeper, you know. They have the key
to heaven's gate -- which is work, which is that huge idea,
work -- that you want, that you wish for, that you know
you're going to have to deal with not having when you go
into it. You're going to have to deal with not having the
work. Your brother is a doctor; he will always have the
work. He will have days when there are no patients at the
clinic, and yet, he will still have the work. And you're
going, "Okay, I know that this is what it's like; this is
what it is." And yet you -- this is the other thing -- you
have to be nice to these people. You have to be nice to
them. You have to say, "Oh, it's all right that you fell
asleep. I mean, you must be very tired, and I really
appreciate that. Thanks for letting me come and do this for
you." You have to do it. You have to do it, and that's
incredible. That takes whatever, a certain kind of
resilience, and I think that, you know, these are things.
This is the thing that's interesting to me. These talents,
they have nothing to do with acting. The talent of
resilience really has nothing to do with whether your craft
is really finely honed and whether or not you can be that
messenger. No, it's a whole other set of talents. It's a
whole other thing that you have to do. It's a whole other
book you have to read. It's a whole other class at the New
School that you have to take, you know? You shouldn't have
to do that. Those rare times when I've been able to act and
not felt that I had to deal with all that other bull have
been the most satisfying times, you know?
I recently had this incredible experience where I had seen
a play at the Signature Theater off-Broadway, and the day
after I saw it, the leading actor quit for whatever reason.
He left, and he took his option and had given 48 hours'
notice. I saw the play on a Tuesday. On Wednesday, he quit.
On Thursday, the play was supposed to close on Sunday, but
they were going to close that night because he gave his 48
hours' notice. And I said, because I knew the Director,
Nicky Martin, a great director and a great friend, I said,
"I'll do the play. I'll read the play with a book in my
hand if you want." And he said, "Okay." And we immediately
pressed ourselves into this incredible mode of rehearsing
as much as you could rehearse a person that was going to go
on in less than 48 hours, and meeting the other actors, and
doing the play. And I did the play, and it was one of the
most satisfying experiences of my life, because there was
none of that other stuff. There was none of the rehearsal
process or the craziness of it. It was just the craft
happening. And that's really satisfying. And the audience's
appreciation of the phenomenon of what I was doing, that
was incredible. And that's when I realized what acting can
be or is. It's not this whole world of rejection or all the
stuff. How well you deal with the rejection, and how well
you deal with the whole lifestyle of it, aren't what make
you an actor. The proof is in the pudding of what happens
when the lights go out, when the lights go down. That is
where you're an actor. And I wish that that was really the
only thing you had to deal with, but it isn't. There's all
this other stuff. And yet, I can't see it any other way
except as worth it. I wake up every day, and I'm so lucky
and happy and feeling so incredible that it found me, that
I was able to discover it. I know there are people
everywhere that haven't found that thing, or don't know
that thing; they didn't explore enough to know that there
was this thing that could make them so happy and fulfill
their lives, or that they could feel that they did the
right thing or chose the right thing. I am lucky that I
found that thing, or that it found me.
CITY
ARTS: And we're lucky, too.
At the very end I realized that there's so much about your
being chosen. Your whole lifestyle is about wishing to be
the one that gets chosen. You know, being auditioned and,
"Oh, I hope that I get picked. I hope I get it," from
"Chorus Line." That's what it all is. And yet at the same
time, there's a vocation that chose you. And so you are, in
your whole life, always feeling in some way chosen. That's
a big issue with me, that I feel that being chosen is
important to me. Being chosen on a day-to-day basis is not
half as important as feeling like I'm the one that was
chosen to do this. And so looking for that "being chosen"
is worth it. It's so worth it. How can you not remind
yourself of that when you need to remind yourself of that?
When you start getting that way, roll clip, you know.
CITY
ARTS:When it's good, it's really good, and . .
.
When it's bad, I guess for some it's really bad. I'm lucky;
I have really great people that remind me every day that it
will be good someday, that I just have to find my way
through it to find it being good. You're talking to me at a
time when it's really great, when it couldn't be better,
and yet I would hope that I wasn't any different four weeks
ago, before I opened on Broadway in my first musical. I
would hope that I wasn't.